Your Q&A Guide to Coming Out, Dating, Parenting and Beyond
Bisexual advice guide written by podcaster and journalist Lewis Oakley, with advice on sex, dating, relationships, parenting, dealing with bisexual erasure, and finding your bisexual niche in queer spaces.

My partner doesn't believe I'm bisexual, what should I do?

How should I approach sex with someone of a different gender for the first time?

Can I reconcile being bisexual with wanting a biological child?

Identifying as bisexual can be a pretty confusing experience - navigating experimentation versus orientation, at times presenting as a straight-passing member of a queer community, at other times having people discredit your attraction to multiple genders. Lewis Oakley, creator of the Ask A Bi Dad column, knows every trick in the book - and he's here to answer your most burning questions.

Warm, chatty, wise and startlingly honest - this is your new bi bible.