{"product_id":"9781948340304-you-ruined-it","title":"You Ruined It","description":"\u003cmeta content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\" http-equiv=\"Content-Type\"\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003eA Book About Boundaries\u003cbr\u003eWith the help of her mom and sister, an 11-year-old heals from the aftermath of being assaulted by her cousin.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eONE OF \u003cem\u003eSCHOOL LIBRARY JOURNAL\u003c\/em\u003e's BEST BOOKS OF 2022\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eIn \u003cem\u003eYou Ruined It\u003c\/em\u003e, Anastasia Higginbotham, acclaimed author of \u003ci\u003eNot My Idea: A Book About Whiteness\u003c\/i\u003e, sheds light on the confusion and pain that many children feel in the aftermath of incest and sexual assault.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWhen 11-year-old Dawn discloses that a favorite cousin sexually assaulted her, it's hard to tell what hurts more: the betrayal or the fall-out. After all, everyone always says to tell someone, but does this mean she'll never get to hang out with him again? What if he goes to jail? \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAnd the biggest question of all: How will she know if she can trust someone again?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eYou Ruined It\u003c\/em\u003e is a testament to a child's experience of a confusing betrayal, her broken heart, and the loved ones who help her piece it back together.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eI wish I had this magical brave book when I was young and being abused. So beautifully rendered and carefully told. May it inspire anyone caught in childhood sexual abuse to tell their story and get free. —V (formerly EVE ENSLER), award-winning playwright and author of bestsellers \u003cem\u003eThe Vagina Monologues\u003c\/em\u003e and \u003cem\u003eThe Apology\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Rarewaves","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":40945943740513,"sku":"9781948340304","price":16.38,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0092\/7504\/8033\/files\/orig_28665425.jpg?v=1742997570","url":"https:\/\/www.rarewaves.com\/products\/9781948340304-you-ruined-it","provider":"Rarewaves.com","version":"1.0","type":"link"}