{"product_id":"9781914487262-die-smiling-tr","title":"Die Smiling","description":"\u003cmeta content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\" http-equiv=\"Content-Type\"\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003eA Memoir. The Sorrows and Joys of a Journey to Dignitas\u003cbr\u003eJulie Casson traces her husband Nigel’s true-life journey from diagnosis of motor neurone disease to his joyful decision to take control of his death\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eA heart-rending memoir of a family living with motor neurone disease\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003e'A searingly honest tale of love, life and death'\u003c\/b\u003e – Sarah Wootton, Dignity in Dying\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003eDie Smiling: A Memoir: The Sorrows and Joys of a Journey to Dignitas\u003c\/i\u003e by Julie Casson is an unforgettable, deeply human non-fiction memoir that follows one family’s path through motor neurone disease (MND\/ALS), enduring love, and the search for dignity, autonomy, and end-of-life choice.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eWhen Julie’s husband, Nigel, begins to lose control of his speech, the couple are propelled into a baffling medical maze — appointments, tests, and the creeping knowledge that something serious is unfolding. The devastating moment arrives: Nigel is told he is believed to have motor neurone disease, “life-limiting” with “no cure.” What follows is not only an intimate portrait of living with terminal illness, but an unflinching account of what it means to love someone through progressive loss — voice, movement, independence — and still fight for joy, humour, and meaning.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eWritten with candour, elegance, and sharp-witted warmth, \u003ci\u003eDie Smiling\u003c\/i\u003e is at once a caregiver memoir, a story of family resilience, and a compassionate exploration of palliative care, hospice realities, and the emotional labour of long-term caring. Julie takes readers behind the scenes of everyday life with MND: the practical challenges, the shifting relationships, the private grief, and the fierce tenderness that can exist alongside exhaustion. It is also a memoir that insists on seeing the whole person — Nigel’s character, his humour, his determination, and the way laughter can survive even when circumstances are bleak.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eCentral to this true story is the question of control. Nigel’s belief in choice becomes a guiding force, leading to the decision that the family will travel to Dignitas in Zurich, Switzerland—a name often surrounded by myth, and here described plainly and thoughtfully. Julie clarifies that Dignitas is not a clinic; it is a not-for-profit members’ society supporting “self-determination, autonomy and dignity.” As the administrative steps intensify and the date approaches, Nigel’s motivation is heartbreakingly simple: he wants to die while he is still himself — “while I can still smile.”\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eThe final chapter of this journey is both intimate and startling in its ordinariness: planning, travel, a confirmed date — 25 April —a nd the family’s last day together in Switzerland. When the end comes, Julie records it with clear-eyed restraint: “Just before noon. Swiss time.”\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003eFor readers seeking books about assisted dying, death with dignity, right-to-die debates, euthanasia ethics, MND\/ALS lived experience, or simply a powerful memoir of marriage and devotion, \u003ci\u003eDie Smiling\u003c\/i\u003e offers a rare blend of honesty, empathy, and profound love — an extraordinary story, told with grace.\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eReader reviews\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e'It’s written with dazzling honesty and clarity\u003c\/b\u003e – I salute the courage of his family in writing and sharing it. Take the time to read it no matter what you think. It’s a beautiful story' – \u003ci\u003eMTT\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e'Julie Casson has written a beautiful memoir. \u003c\/b\u003eWhat a remarkable man Nigel was, courageous, fun-loving family man. Julie and her family are unbelievably supportive.' – \u003ci\u003eB2NYC\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e'Read in 2 days – laughed a lot and cried a lot – truly inspiring.\u003c\/b\u003e Julie is a fantastic writer and should be encouraged to write a novel. It is one of the best memoirs I have read for a long time and have learnt so much about MND and Dignitas.' \u003ci\u003e– K Matthieson\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e'I was greatly moved by Julie's book\u003c\/b\u003e describing the initial diagnosis of her husband's MND through to the sad, yet uplifting conclusion at the Dignitas establishment in Switzerland. Throughout the book, the strength and importance of family is clear to see. Moments of intense sadness are counterbalanced with typical northern humour.often, on the same page.' \u003ci\u003e– David Chard\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e'I have never before experienced every emotion in one book before.\u003c\/b\u003e Heartbreaking and heartwarming but also hilarious.' Customer\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e \u003cb\u003e'What an amazing read, I almost feel like I was on the journey with them.\u003c\/b\u003e I laughed as much as I cried.' – P.M Swaine\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e \u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003eBuy the book and start reading\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eContents\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e1. Looking Back 3\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e2. Death’s Calling Card 6\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e3. Brenda and Methuselah 15\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e4. Tests, Tests and More Tests 23\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e5. The End of ‘Normal.’ 32\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e6. Life with MND Begins 44\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e7. Breaking the News 53\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e8. The Wailing Weeks 67\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e9. Spain 81\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e10. The Bucket List 85\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e11. Where Hope Dies 91\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e12. Not Ready for This 98\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e13. Our Spanish Love Affair 103\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e14. Two Steps Ahead 112\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e15. MND Declares War 122\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e16. Don’t Forget Me 126\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e17. Cost More Than our First House 132\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e18. Starting to Die 137\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e19. 22 July 2011 147\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e20. Every Day is a Bonus 157\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e21. Don’t Laugh at my Cock 164\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e22. Toileting Matters 179\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e23. When the Laughter Stops 191\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e24. It’s All About Control 203\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e25. Apply to Die 210\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e26. The Provisional Green Light 226\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e27. Last Christmas 238\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e28. The Recce 247\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e29. Appointment with Death 264\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e30. Twenty-five Days Left to Live 283\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e31. The Goodbyes 295\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e32. The Hotel and the Doctor 303\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e33. One More Day 314\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e34. Nigel’s Cure 328\u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e35. 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