{"product_id":"9780995573628-why-you-will-marry-the-wrong-person","title":"Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person","description":"\u003cmeta content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\" http-equiv=\"Content-Type\"\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis collection of essays proposes that we don’t need perfection to be happy. So long as we enter our relationships in the right spirit, we have every chance of coping well enough with, and even delighting in, the inevitable and distinctive wrongness that lies in ourselves and our beloveds.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt’s one of the things we are most afraid might happen to us. We go to great lengths to avoid it. And yet we do it all the same. We marry the wrong person. Anyone we might marry could, of course, be a little bit wrong for us. We know that perfection is not on the cards. The fault isn’t entirely our own.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIn the Classical age one might have considered criteria such as how much land a prospective marriage partner has. In the Romantic age, which still dominates our culture, we place great confidence in intuition – a sense that there is such a thing as ‘the one’, that you understand one another perfectly and that you both never want to sleep with anyone else again.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe time has come to bury the Romantic intuition-based view of marriage and learn to practice and rehearse marriage as one would ice-skating or violin playing, activities no more deserving of systematic periods of instruction.\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eA Collection of Three Essays:\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhy You Will Marry the Wrong Person\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhen is One Ready to Get Married?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow Love Stories Ruin Our Love Lives\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Rarewaves","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":40943936143457,"sku":"9780995573628","price":8.41,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0092\/7504\/8033\/files\/stand_33622779.jpg?v=1744274675","url":"https:\/\/www.rarewaves.com\/products\/9780995573628-why-you-will-marry-the-wrong-person","provider":"Rarewaves.com","version":"1.0","type":"link"}